Barbara1433, 61

I'm looking for company, a friend first, and to see if more naturally develops. Emphasis on naturally. I love going out to dinner, someplace where I can hear what you're saying. I love taking walks with my dog. I love going to concerts and movies. I love to read. I require honesty and deliver it in return. I love being alone, and I love company- a little more of the latter would be good, solitude is great but REALLY, enough is enough. There are three things that I won't deal with 1- infidelity, 2- alcoholism 3 drug addiction (with the exception of nicotine, because I'm addicted to that, so that'd be hypocritical- I've tried to quit 14 times, I will try again). I love and can't stand my family, they are really imnportant to me. I love animals and hate insects, and reptiles generally. Spiders in particular freak me out . I'm currently trying to lose 20 pounds but am not one of those people who always talks about it or won't have a fry once in a while. I work out regularly, I have an "at least three times a week" personal policy. I have long brown hair and brown eyes and think I'm actually pretty good looking and maybe would be a really hot 46 year old woman if I could drop that 20 pounds. I have a job that requires travel, I love it . I'm never gone for more than 2 weeks at a time, and even that's rare. Mostly three/ four days a couple times a month. I like being with someone who has their own stuff going on and can deal with that. I'd love to be with someone who adds to my already really pleasant life- and someone who I can be there for and grow with.