Derangedinsanit, 37

i have a beautiful little girl named isabella. her father has absolutely nothing to do with me or her. in fact he was the last man i ever dated.
being a mom is liberating and scary. it wasn't til i had her that i began to understand who i really am.
i'm a very sarcastic person, and sometimes can come off as rude. but i'm very lovable and never mean anything harsh. i'm easy to get along with and i very rarely fight, it's pointless and never gets anything accomplished. i'm very blunt b/c i don't like to candy coat anything, but if i say something hurtful, i'm not afraid to apologize.
i'm not a doormat or a lapdog and i don't expect to be treated like one.
i value my friends and i respect others so long as they don't give me a reason not to.
i'm a bit of a girly girl with a side of tom-boy (mainly with the hair and rock music, but i'm still a fan of the color pink). if i had to label myself it would most likely be "lipstick lesbian".
i'm looking for someone with a similar style of mine. being open-minded is a must.
i don't like spastic people or the dramatic type.
i'd love to meet someone i can do cute stuff with like cook together or go on picnics... hell... even shopping, though it's not my favorite thing to do. i think the shopping experience is mostly based on the company and if they can have a good time with it. i don't like people who treat my daughter like she's a burden on me. she's a blessing and so much fun to be around. i love my alone time, but i want someone who can have fun with isabella around as well. i'm not looking for another parent-figure to step in, and i don't expect help, but if offered, i almost always take it.
i love creativity and spontaneity.
i love people who can think for themselves. if i feel i have to babysit someone else, like constantly leading the conversation, or being the soul decision maker, that's not my version of a good time.
i don't like to limit myself and i'm always finding ways to broaden my horizon.