I love staying at home, but I really like going out on the town too. I'll whine at you to wear something nice on occassion; I'll also force you to dance and see boring, expensive things like theater. The few girls that I've dated just seem to get it, but with guys its like pulling teeth. I also keep a camera in my purse, and you will get your photo taken often.
As for being trans, I changed years ago. I've been fulltime since 2003 and can't wait for my surgery. I'm here to find someone caring for a long term relationship, hopefully leading to marriage someday. In my situation, you can't really say yes to the folks that ask you out on the street without going into all the details; its just so much easier to be upfront online. When you're really lonely, I don't think there's a worse pain in the world than actually getting asked out...but having to make something up because it's less embarassing than explaining your past. It's a bit like pouring lemon juice in the wound.
I don't freak out if it comes up in conversation, I just try to answer any questions folks have, but unless someone's asking me out I virtually never discuss it and try to hide it to the best I'm able.Oh, and I suppose that would be the last part to mention...I'm horrible about asking people out! Guys I think I'd be okay, but if you're a girl you'll probably have to initiate our conversation. I have a lot of lesbian friends at work and I know the stereotype of most never wanting to date a trans woman. I stay away because I hate putting things on people. But I'm equally happy dating either in a sincere relationship. Nice to meet you all!
