Phoenixkjb, 43

looking for a wife/ life partner I am for the most part an easy going person who likes to laugh and have fun. Sometimes, ok most of the time, I think far too much. Music, art and friends are my fun, reading is my passion. In all my fun and passion one thing is constant and that is the variety of them all. I enjoy going for long aimless drives just to see where the road takes me and it almost always takes me to water of some sort. I am drawn to the water, the sound soothes me. I also enjoy the beauty of the things around me and will sit and look at the mountains or a sunrise or sunset, or just sit in the rain and watch a good thunderstorm light up the sky.
I am looking for someone who is secure enough in who they are to be out, that is the first thing because I am too far out to go back in... short of that mostly I am looking for someone I click with who enjoys life and wants a life partner, wife, etc... I can't do open relationships, thats just not me. I am a romanitc at heart I suppose so my partner would probably need to be ok with that and hopefully enjoy it. With people I care about I am over-protective of them but not over-bearing as that is annoying. I would want my partner to be themselves and have their friends and opinions, as I will have mine. I would want them to know that the mind is what makes them attractive to me, we don't always have to agree and there is not always a set right and wrong and that is good because it makes us think and grow. Finally, a few big things for me are honest, respect, and loyality... these are the building blocks of any foundation and all equally important.